Dotty ,Days,Dreams.and Daisies!

Dotty ,Days,Dreams.and Daisies!
Our home educated Dog Dotty ,and Puppy Daisy

Friday 9 April 2010

Learning by living

This is more of anouncment than a blog.....our family has had its own little rethink and we have decided to step into a whole new life style so we are now unschooling in the greatest sense.
The stuff we tried to do to tick the boxes would please any school minded person but if school was right for our children then they would be there.
They seem to know what they need to learn right now and we are willing to support their interests and help them access resources as they need.
This is not a method of education it is a tranfsormation in life style .
The children will learn thigs that interest them and will be learning alongside them.
We will need to resource ourselves not with school schedules but with,enough human and spiritual resources to respectfully hear their ideas about life and join the journey they are on.
This is not a passive thing it takes investment of time emotion and real presence in our parenting.
Dotty will love this journey becuase she gets to come along to and add to and enhance our lives together.
What sparked this was our children getting flu!
?Our daughter age 9 had a very high temperature but in her pyjamas she wroked on more craft art and started preparing an outline for her latest theatre project which will be called Home school Musical!!!
She has written a script andlyrics and has persauaded a local home educating mum who is a drama teacher to help her and they plan to do a two week workshop with performance in the summer.
She also discussed the science of how her body was fighting the infection.
She asked about reproduction in mammals and humans ...she totally led the questions and once she felt she had accessed enough info walked away as though it was all every day...she has age books and appropriate web sites where she can find out more but seems content for now!
Then she asked if we could go and see the film..How to train your dragon.
So as soon as she got better we took the family to see the film which we all loved.
Fred ordered the book at the childrens request when we came back and today it arrived at 9am and DS had rea dit by 12 noon! In the middle of the woodland trail where we had gone for a walk and picnic with two other home educating families.
DD loves the book but has read it a little more slowly, in the tranquility of her home . She has enjoyed sharing he rbook by reading it aloud to me and even asking me to read a page or two to her she loves showing me the illustrations and commenting on them.
DD's favourite thing to do at night is to snuggle up on the bed with me and read or chat until she is alomost or actually asleep then we helpher move to her room .
This is an imporatnt part of her day as she loves to share her ideas and feelings during this time.
I go to bed quite ealry as I get up really ealry to walk the dog with the pack of dogs she loves to socialise with!
Tommorow we travel to Bournemouth to visit our four week old puppy called Daisy we can't wait to see how much she has grown since we met her last!
Dotty will come with us and get to take a walk in the new Forest!

3 comments:

  1. Wow!!
    We love your new puppy!
    Congratulations on the unschooling, it's a very exciting path for children and the grownups too.

    Lily would love to link up by video call!!

    xx

    Elizabeth and Lily

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  2. I've been mulling over your shift all day. I'm sure you will all love the change it brings and have a super ripple effect on everyone who surrounds you.

    I think the amazing man would like this group.
    http://groups.yahoo.com/group/takingchildrenseriously/
    It's very critical rational, the place to go for logical reassurance on the unschooling choice.

    You don't really need a book recommendation, you instinct seems so strong but I enjoy dipping in and out of:

    "Winning Parent, Winning Child" by Jan Fortune Wood

    We've just been geo-caching here, half a mile from our future home.

    http://www.culture24.org.uk/asset_arena/2/51/15152/v0_master.jpg

    You must come visit.

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  3. Well done on taking the plunge to form a completely new lifestyle and change in thinking styles - never easy, but hopefully extremely fruitful and rewarding - as for us.

    Hugs and well wishes, I look forward to reading more...

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